A new series has officially arrived on the blog: Outfit of the Day.
Why?
Because it motivates me to dress up and avoid falling into the trap of becoming that I-don’t-give-a-fck*, not-put-together version of myself. You know the one — hair in a half-forgotten bun, wearing clothes that don’t spark joy (or anything at all), and basically blending into the background of my own life. I don’t want that. Not for me, and not for anyone out there who’s looking for a little daily inspiration to step out of the basic, boring, autopilot clothes that we all default to sometimes.
And if you’ve been here before, you know — I’m that kind of person who will wear an outfit, love it, take it off at the end of the day, and then… carefully drape it over a chair so I can wear it again tomorrow. Not because I’m lazy (okay, maybe a little), but because if it worked once, why not?
Now, here’s where I get really honest. I’m a stay-at-home mom. I do things around the house all day. The last thing I want is to wear jeans at home — that is not comfortable for folding laundry, cooking dinner, or chasing toddlers who think the living room is a racetrack. But here’s the thing: just because I want comfort, doesn’t mean I have to look like I’ve given up. Comfort and style are not enemies — they can be best friends if you let them.
So why bother? Why care?
Because I want to feel good about me. Clothes have this magic power — they can completely shift your energy. They can make you feel confident, pulled-together, even energized when you’d otherwise feel… meh. And honestly, I want to honor that. I want to dress for my mood — or sometimes, for the mood I want to have.
Of course, there are days where it’s just not going to happen. If I’m bloated, crampy, and riding the emotional rollercoaster of my period, I might live in pajamas or the softest sweatpants I own. And that’s okay. But more often than not, I make a little effort — maybe a cute outfit, maybe just a swipe of blush and mascara, maybe both.
Lately, I’ve been using my time at home as a kind of personal style lab. I get to experiment with different looks without the pressure of people watching or judging. I can wear something all day while I do my usual mom-life things and see how it feels. Is it actually comfortable? Does it make me feel good and work for my lifestyle? If it doesn’t, I can change. I can mix, match, and play until I find combinations I love.
And so, here we are. The first OOTD of the series.
The Outfit
For my first entry, I went for something neutral, breezy, and perfectly transitional for this in-between season. I wore linen shorts and a button-down linen shirt, both from H&M. The linen gives that relaxed, I’m-on-holiday feel — even if my “holiday” is just taking the kids to the park.
To give it a touch of polish, I added light blue low-heel sandals from Aldo (a Winners find — my favorite kind of surprise). I decided to skip makeup entirely, letting the outfit do the work. The result? An effortless balance between comfort and being pulled together. Definitely a big step up from my default leggings-and-an-oversized-tee combo.
Why This Works
Here’s why this kind of outfit is my sweet spot right now:
- It’s comfortable. Linen breathes, moves with you, and never clings.
- It feels intentional. Even though it’s simple, there’s thought behind it. The pieces match in texture and tone.
- It’s versatile. Swap the sandals for sneakers, and I’m ready for a playground run. Switch the shirt for a tank top, and it’s a different vibe.
- It’s mood-boosting. When I catch my reflection, I don’t think yikes. I think yes, that’s me.
The Mindset Shift
What I’ve learned is that dressing well when you’re home all day is a choice — not a chore. And it’s not about dressing for someone else. It’s about dressing for you. There’s a very real connection between what we wear and how we feel. A cozy-but-chic outfit makes me more productive, more energized, and more willing to take on the day.
It’s also a gentle act of self-respect. And honestly, as moms, as women, as humans, we deserve that.
The Series Goal
This OOTD series isn’t just for me — it’s for us. For anyone stuck in a rut. For anyone who wants to feel a little more alive in their clothes. I’ll be sharing outfits that are realistic for daily life, not just Instagram moments. Looks that balance style and comfort, so you can live in them — whether you’re doing school drop-off, working from home, or just making coffee in your kitchen.
I also want to explore different styles without worrying about trends dictating what’s “in.” Some days it’ll be minimal and neutral. Other days I might experiment with color, prints, or statement accessories. Think of it as a fashion playground — without the rules.
Your Turn
I want this to be a conversation, not just me showing you clothes. So tell me — what do you do to feel put together? Do you have a go-to outfit formula that works every time? Do you dress up even when you’re staying in, or is that something you’re working on?
Because here’s my truth: I believe we all have the right to feel beautiful in our everyday life, not just for events, dates, or nights out. And if putting on a pair of linen shorts and a button-down shirt helps me feel that way, then it’s worth the extra two minutes it takes to choose them.
Outfit Details
- Linen shorts – H&M
- Linen button-down shirt – H&M
- Low-heel sandals – Aldo (Winners)
Here’s to honoring our moods, respecting our comfort, and still showing up for ourselves — one outfit at a time.
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